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  • Looking for blog ideas? Feel free to borrow one of these.

    Sometimes the ideas just don’t come. I was in that situation last week, so I took a blogging break. No big deal. But this week, I really want to post something…and I do have a couple of starts…but nothing that I’m feeling excited about. So before I pursued one of those half-baked ideas, I thought…

  • How much is 800 grams of produce?

    When my daughter invited me to participate in a nutrition challenge to eat 800 grams of fruits and vegetables per day throughout the month of October, I immediately responded, “Sounds fun! I’m in!”  I mean I like fruits and vegetables. I eat them every day. I don’t weigh them…but eating 800 grams can’t be that…

  • Where have 7 years of blogging gotten me?

    And just like that another year has gone by. As of October 2, So What? Now What? is seven years old. When I wrote my first blog post, I described this blog as a public reprogramming of my internal route guidance…hoping to answer the question “What’s next for me? Where do I go from here?”…

  • Favorite fall quotes and pics

    It is officially autumn (aka fall) in the Northern Hemisphere. I always enjoy the changing of seasons, but autumn is by far my favorite. Last year was challenging for me, but I am happy to report that my usual autumn joy has returned for 2022. In celebration, I decided to forego my typical weekly blog…

  • Embracing impermanence

    These last few months I have been reminded repeatedly of the impermanence of life…and everything in it. This is not necessarily a bad thing. Accepting impermanence makes every moment more precious, every experience more noteworthy. What if we treated each encounter with another living being as if it would be our last contact? What if…

  • Farewell sweet Betty

    Yesterday we laid my sweet mother-in-law to rest. I’ve mentioned a few times in this blog how much I love her and how lucky I am to have won the in-law lottery when I married Larry. In addition to an amazing husband, I got the whole big wonderful family. I feel so blessed to have…

  • I wasn’t expecting that

    Life is full of surprises…from small things like a ladybug landing on your arm to jarring things like a 5.7 earthquake…from pleasant things like a visit from an old friend to disagreeable things like a flat tire.  One thing is for certain…life is more enjoyable when you learn to expect the unexpected…go with the flow…hang…

  • When doubt and confusion abound

    It’s been seven weeks since I told you my month of R&R had come to an end and nearly four weeks since we completed our long-awaited trip to Alaska. I’m feeling a little restless…unsettled. Like there is something I should be doing, but I’m not sure what it is.  There’s that word “should” again. No…

  • 3 things I learned from aging parents

    My mother-in-law turned 95 this summer. She has seen and done a lot during those years. She raised three children, was a dedicated military wife, managed a bank branch, golfed, made friends she still has today… Of course, that is just the tip of the iceberg…a small sampling of what she has experienced in her…

  • I have a confession to make…or several

    Six years ago, I shared some confessions with you. I decided it would be fun…for me at least, and I hope for you too…to relook at those confessions and see if anything has changed. Here is the original content with the updates in bold: I have a confession to make. Well, actually I have several….