Friday favorites: butterflies abound

Happy Friday friends! This week has been an emotional one around here, as I’ve already talked about. Amid the sorrow, there has been much joy. I have always loved butterflies, but since Bryan’s death, they have come to have special significance, as I described in a Facebook post shortly after he passed:

A running trail

This morning, I went for a run on my usual trail at Hawkes Landing when it hit me that I was running that very trail right before my sweet husband had to inform me that Bryan had been taken from us. I almost turned around, but I so love this place, and I didn’t want to lose the feeling of peace it has always brought me. So I pushed forward and focused on nature–the beautiful trees and wild flowers, the squirrels and birds. I consciously opened myself to nature’s healing power. Then I noticed how many butterflies there were, and (feel free to roll your eyes here), but I swear they represented Bryan flying free. This is an amazing, kind, cruel, complex, simple, exhilarating, terrifying world that we live in. Bryan would want us to continue enjoying it (though he’d probably want us to quit talking about it so much!).

So this week, I remembered Bryan with butterfly nail art. Thank you Meghan for doing a lovely job. How is it possible to paint something so tiny and make it look good?

Butterfly nail art

And Larry sent me these beautiful flowers, complete with a butterfly. Thank you Larry for your thoughtfulness.

Flowers with a butterfly

Sunday morning, I went on a walk with my sister and one of her grandsons. No butterfly pictures, but look at this cutie! Thank you Cindy for joining me and for sharing your little one.

Young boy at a park

Notice all the water bottles! We’re a well-hydrated group. I am immensely grateful for clean water to drink.

Woman and child on a trail

And that’s a wrap. What are you thankful for this week?

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6 Comments

  1. You always know the way to turn Lemons into Lemonade in everything you do. You always seem to find the positives instead of negatives,
    and continue to march forward in everything you do. From your dedications as an Senior Vice President of your company, being a great wife and partner, and for being the best Grandma ever! (just ask the grandkids ) you are Definitely the pillar for so many.
    Time to “Thank you” for being YOU!lar
    ❌⭕️❌⭕️❌⭕️

  2. Lovely post! I am grateful to be safely back home after our 7-week trip. I am also grateful to you for writing a guest post on my blog while I was gone 🙂

  3. I think of my dad whenever I see butterflies, too. And butterflies have been used to honor the many children who died in the Holocaust. So glad butterflies were plentiful this week. My dad has been gone for six years and this spring and summer the butterflies have been scarce. Makes me sad because it feels like he is slipping further away. XO

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