Kindness — a cure for the winter blues

Cure for the winter blues

If you ask me (and let’s pretend you did), Utah actually has five seasons: Spring, Summer, Fall, Winter Wonderland, and Winter Blahs. We are now deep in the heart of Winter Blahs—the time of year when it’s easy to get the blues and difficult to get motivated. After years of scientific research (or possibly just my personal experience), I’ve discovered two sure-fire ways to restore enthusiasm for life: do something nice for someone else and do something nice for yourself. This week’s post will focus on kindness towards others. In a future post, we’ll tackle being kind to ourselves.

Random acts of kindness

I recently read a Richard Branson blog post, in which he committed to performing 15 specific acts of kindness throughout the year and challenged his followers to do the same. This motivated me to create my own list. I borrowed some from Branson’s blog and added some of my own. I shortened the list to 10, since I am committing to perform them all this winter.

Now I challenge you to join me. Will you commit to performing 10 random acts of kindness this winter? (You can use my list or create your own.) Together, we can help ourselves and those around us overcome the Winter Blahs and make it to Spring happier and healthier.

  1. Compliment a stranger.
  2. Smile and sincerely thank a cashier, a barista, a waiter, or anyone else that serves you.
  3. Hug someone.
  4. Send a hand-written thank-you note to someone.
  5. Smile at someone on the street, just because.
  6. Help someone who is struggling with a baby stroller or heavy bags.
  7. Let a car in front of you in traffic.
  8. Give someone a book you think they’d like.
  9. Invite a neighbor or a coworker who you don’t know well (yet) to lunch or dinner.
  10. Pay for a stranger’s coffee or meal.

Let me know if you’re up for the challenge and/or if you have other suggestions for acts of kindness.

Follow my blog with Bloglovin

This post linked to the GRAND Social

Wednesday AIM Link Party

You may also like

  • Is eating a healthy breakfast really that important?

    If your childhood was anything like mine, you grew up with the admonition, “Breakfast is the most important meal of the day.” But is eating a healthy breakfast really that important? What if you are not hungry in the morning? Or maybe you’ve jumped on the Intermittent Fasting bandwagon. In that case, skipping breakfast is…

  • Transformation Challenge Plus results

    Eight weeks ago, I wrote about a transformation challenge of a different sort (for me). I was starting the 8-week Orangetheory Transformation Challenge at the same time that I decided to take a leap of faith and try intuitive eating. No more tracking points, protein, produce servings…or anything else. I would trust my body to…

  • Am I being thorough in my research or just procrastinating?

    First of all, thank you to everyone who offered encouragement and congratulations on last week’s goal updates. It’s such a gift to have people cheering you on…and holding you accountable.  Several of you commented on the three Learning and Growth goals I’ve been considering. Being the overthinker that I am, and considering my tendency to…

  • GratiTuesday guest post

    Today I have the privilege of writing a guest post for Janis’s GratiTuesday series. Here’s a little taste. I hope you’ll hop over to Retirementally Challenged to read the full post. While you’re there, check out the rest of her blog. You won’t regret it. I’m not a morning person—or more accurately, I don’t like…

  • Gratitude for my body

    Thank you lungs for breathing…in and out…in and out. For sustaining life, of course, but also for grounding me when my thoughts are spinning. I can always stop and focus on my breath. Breathing in…and breathing out…breathing in…and breathing out. Thank you heart for beating continuously day in and day out…never taking a break…whether I…

  • Possibilities to please the senses

    To participate in life we must experience life through our five senses. We must see the world, hear its subtle messages, smell its flavors, taste its sweetness and touch its surface. D. Wayne Dworsky As part of my Winter Possibilities List I included the idea of creating a sublist of activities centered around each of my senses. That generated some interest among you,…

9 Comments

  1. What a great idea, Christie! I can’t imagine this NOT brightening up my mood during the most blah time of the year. You’re totally spot on with the 5 seasons, btw.
    Thanks for the suggestions! I’m gonna go for it!
    Also, happy anniversary to you and Larry!!

  2. I’m going to do it too! I have to admit #9 will be the hardest for me, but that’s probably all the more reason to do it! ?

  3. All great suggestions. Wouldn’t the world be a better place if everyone did such? Thank you Christie for sharing this post at the Wednesday AIM Link Party. I shared it on Pinterest but don’t see any social media share buttons. Am I missing them?.

    1. Thanks Grammy Dee. Sometimes when the madness threatens to overwhelm me, I remind myself that I can only control my actions and that every little bit helps. Kindness counts. I’m still figuring out the technical side of blogging. I’ll look into the share buttons. Thanks for the suggestion and for the AIM Link Party.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *